So You're Going to be a Daddy, Now What?

Don't panic!  Most importantly, don't let her know you're scared...or even worse, don't seem unprepared.  It's one thing to carry the persona that you have everything under control, but it's another thing to really have it all together.

You're starting one of the greatest adventures known to mankind, but understood best by "woman-kind."  First things first, show her you are interested in everything! 

Take an active role in listening to her advice, her intentions, her feelings, her thoughts, her emotions...find new ways to show her, more now than ever, that you support her thoughts and opinions about pregnancy.  Keep encouraging her as she reads, learns, studies, and prepares for your new baby.  Take the time now to brush up on a few things you can do for your mommy2be!  

She may tend to over react about certain things...let her!  She wants to see that you are as concerned about being prepared as she is. 

Now is the time to give her more "time" than ever before.  Be sure to plan romantic evenings, dates, maybe even take that vacation you've been saving for.  Keep in mind, it won't be just you and her after the baby arrives...so be smart!   

Find ways to let her know that you are making a commitment to her and to your future family.  Make the commitment to be a Family4Life!

One of the first things you can do to show her your are involved and planning is to begin "packing" your LaborGear Bag™.  We have one that is ready for you which will save you time and money...and we've included a list of things you will want to add for yourself.  It's the best gift to give your partner right now, besides your undivided love, attention, and support.                                               (back)